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    Ralphjones is offline Junior Member Ralphjones is on a distinguished road
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    Hi Guys

    Just a quick Hello, Iím 33 and only signed up for this website which I must say is excellent and great place to know your not alone.

    Had mild ED for while which I am 99% sure is down to Psychological Issues as once I get into a relationship and learn to relax things get slightly better but as anything is depends how the girl deals with it. My last relationship which has now ended made matters worse for me and I could not perform when was required maybe due arguing more closer to to the end about other things. I am quite a nervous person in general and things do get to me.

    Whilst with that GF i was on Levrita 5mg which did work well but planning always had to go into it which I didnít mind to much as long as worked when needed.

    After breaking up with her I read up a bit about the tabs and Cialis seemed the best so got 12 20mg tabs but any time I took them I didnít notice too much when around girls but to be fair was never intimate with any of them. I then tried Levrita again as I knew these worked before.

    Few weeks ago I met a girl out she came back to my mates and as soon as we started kissing I could feel my erection go as hard as rock (taken half 20mg) She then started touching me below and still excellent. We didnít have sex as was 1st night but I was confident I could have. Moving onto the 3rd night I met her I knew Sex was sort of on the cards through texts we were exchanging.

    That night one thing led to another and with Oral sex everything was sweet but 20 secs after starting Sexual Intercourse something ticked in my brain and I went soft. We had both been drinking a bit that night so I jumped off pretending I was going to be sick so she didnít notice. I went to the bathroom and took the other half and waited a while but nothing at all worked and it seemed like my body was having none of it then and I could feel myself shaking slightly probably due to the build up and annoyance. I ended up not seeing the girl again which I donít mind as I wasnít to much into her anyway but I am worried when I am into a girl this is going to be an issue. Feel so depressed these last couple of days since this happened and itís not like me at all as normally I am on top form with people.

    I wish I could take an anti Depressant tablet to take the Anxiety away but I know this can makes matters worse.

    Btw I get full wood in the morning and when masturbating so it does work but just not at the right time but I need to be positive and confident that when I do get it back I will be ok again

    thanks for reading

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ralphjones View Post
    Hi Guys

    That night one thing led to another and with Oral sex everything was sweet but 20 secs after starting Sexual Intercourse something ticked in my brain and I went soft.

    thanks for reading
    We are in the same boat Ralph and yes it is all just mental in your case as well as mine. The problem lies with that tick that happens, it makes you nervous and soft in a second. Planning is key in my case, I am only 36 and get erections without any problems by myself or masturbating, but as soon as I am with a girl I need the help of Viagra, which implies psychological ED.

    Was in a 3 year relationship and only had sex on weekends, had to take Viagra 1 year into the relationship because I just could not get it up anymore. I know go on dates every once in a while and just recently tested oral sex with a girl without taking Viagra and it worked. I did not penetrate but let her blow me. How did I do this without Viagra? Well I also must confess I am a little addicted to porn, watch it every day. I stopped this for 2 weeks and ran 3 miles everyday instead I noticed my morning wood getting harder and thankfully it all worked when I had my date, about a 80% boner. Also have been eating watermelons 4 times a week, which I have read helps blood flow....

    I am still working on this technique and will report more of my findings later. I want to stop taking Viagra but still have it just in case.

    Do you watch porn at all or have allot of stress in your life? You have psychological ED and believe me, it is just as hard as physical ED. You should consider making some drastic changes in you diet, exercise and health, well this is what I am doing and it looks like it is working but I still need Viagra. Only time will tell and I will report my findings...

    Tic..

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    Thanks Tic for acknowledging my message. It is reassuring to know youíre not alone and apart from your Doctor there are people like yourself you can vent to.

    Viagra is one I have not tried yet. Levrtia does seem to do the trick but need more time to experiment.

    Itís good you want to stop taking Viagra but did it work for you everytime you took it whilst dating your last GF for 3 years or was there times the psychological factor got it the way. Was she understanding or even know you were taking it.

    I do watch porn frequently for a quick 5mins session and have no problems getting erect but I am quite a nervous person in life. I am confident in some ways as I am a manager but in other ways I am not, like I tremble if I have to do public speaking etc in front of a small crowd of 10-15 for example.

    Another thing I have is a shy bladder (medical Term-Paruresis) basically cannot pee infront of people. Need to wait till toilet is empty but even the thought of someone coming in stops me so I normally use the cubicle. This I can deal with and have for around 10 years but I wonder is it all connected to anxiety in general and low confidence.

    Before going with my last GF I was casually sleeping with a girl and the whole thing wasnít an issue and had no fears building in my head as never thought about it but now I think I have created the Domino affect were once u start thinking about it you canít stop.

    Have you tried Cialis or Levrita or is Viagra something which works and youíre sticking to it.

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    I am going to go ahead and jump on this boat to guys! Have had psychological Erectile Dysfunction for years now and do not have a solid system down yet to control it. I know what Tic says is true about exercising and changing your diet but I just do not have time for all this. Work has me by the balls 13 hours a day and when I get home the wife still expects me to have sex as if I were 21 again.

    Ralph, I am currently taking 50mg of Viagra and what I have noticed is 2 things.

    1) Taking it on an empty stomach can help increase the effects faster (same probably goes for Levitra). If you feel it does not work after 30 minutes then eat a granola bar or something, so that your system can digest. This happened to me and it worked

    2) If you do take Viagra before going to dinner or something take the pill with you and right after your meal gets to your table, go to the bathroom and take it, this will put it first in line for digestion and 45 minutes later you will start to feel the effects.

    These are all my tricks and they have worked for me so far. Make sure that after you take them you think about something sexual the whole time. DO NOT think "Oh *censored**censored**censored**censored* I hope this works" because that will ruin it and create this tick you guys are talking about. Just think of anything sexual, I usually watch girls at the mall or re-think a sexual encounter I had, strippers, anything........

    Give it a shot, works for me

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    Hey guys. A good way to determine whether or not it is psychological ED that my urologist told me is the "how quick is it to fill" test.

    When you are alone looking at erotic material, is it rapidly filling? If so, your arteries are good. If it fills slowly, then something is wrong with your blood pressure to your penis and it's probably physical.

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    Thanks for jumping in Brar - Few quick questions though

    How old are you? Was this an issue before you got married and does your wife know you take them? I always thought once you were married you become more relaxed and the psychological factors donít come into it as much but in saying that it started happening with me after 2years of a 3 year relationship.

    Is Viagra the only one you have tried? This is the only one I havenít tried and Iím wondering is there any point as Levrtia seems to do the trick but as you say I need to train my mind to think of positive things to help me. Cialis I found not to work at all for me(well very slightly) but have never given it a proper go with a women but you can sort of tell when you are by yourself.

    Willie thanks for your comments. Mine would fill rapidly and as soon as I start Kissing a girl I can feel it stand to attention so I am certain its all in my head.

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    Yes and no Ralph. Once I got married I solved my premature ejaculation issues because I felt more confident but my ED was still an issue and I think it still is because I fail to talk about it with my wife. It is not easy to tell the person who thinks the world of you that you are less of a man. I think this has caused me psychological ED and I am still trying to solve it..

    Viagra works the best for me, I have tried Cialis but it did not work very well on me as well. Felt a little weak... with Viagra I get string hard erections. Canot speak for Levitra for I have never tried it... And yes, try your best to train yourself to think positive, it is your best bet..

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